ATTRACT A DOMINANT WOMAN who will appreciate and Lead you in a sexy D/s FLR.
When I was approached by a submissive, he was confident, charming and zoned in to what he wanted. It compelled me to explore my Dominance with him and it was because of how attractive he made himself to a potential Domme like me that I fully emerged as his D/s FLR Owner.
The current full frame of masculinity has changed today, leaving men, especially submissive men,, feeling discarded in a society that has devalued their natural desire to be capable, in service and elevate.
Submissives provide immense value to the world and to their Dommes. They bring accountability, responsibility and integrity to the service they provide. They do the hard things that men are supposed to do and are valued for.
What men need is to have a worthy mission. This is especially true of submissive men. There’s a strong and deep need to be in service to something they believe is greater than themselves. Submissive men want to serve in sacrifice on behalf of it.
With the constant vilification of masculinity, men have been conditioned not to embrace their sexual vibe out of a misguided sense of detrimental boundaries that prevent men from chasing and courting their Dommes (and life!) in a manner that attracts them on a primal level. It’s purely out of my own self interest, you see, are the more sexually confident you as a sub and allow me and others to feel it from you, the more attraction you’ll create and the more we will want to feel your face under our…ahem, feet.
So I encourage you not to just take masculinity back, but to lean into your masculine submission and build your internal sexy confidence, as it pleases me and Dommes like me to be served by men who aren’t afraid to show their sensual, provocative edge as well as their gentleman side. Approach her respectfully but also with some of the raw sensuality that arouses her into hard circles through Her leather.
Let her feel from you that you’ve been molded to be selective with who you submit to. Building yourself as your most attractive is a necessity. Be captivating. Be capable. Be courted.
Seek Stoically. Serve Selectively. THEN Surrender Sublimely.
