HOUSE OF V A L E S K A
HOUSE OF V A L E S K A
FEMDOM IS HOME.
FEMDOM IS LIFE.
FEMDOM IS.
In My House I live as the GLORIOUS RULER as is the meaning of my name V A L E S K A
I’M A HIGH COUNSEL DOMME
I channeled my light and dark traits and skills towards creating and maintaining a strong, sexually and psychologically exciting
D/s Female Led Relationship
with a bold, confident, submissive man who’d approached and lured me in to in turn seduce him into submission and surrender.
I’m a Warrior Ruler Femdom
I Counsel submissive men into elevation of their value and acts of service to attract the Domme they will serve best and
I Counsel & provide strategy to Women coming into their Dominance and in pursuit of the
FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP
OF THEIR DREAMS
My Counsel is a combination of my natural gifts of seeing possibilities and outcomes and crafting a path, based on core needs towards your
TRUE FORM.
I’m an Authoritarian Seductress
I’m a Psychological Domme. I use Femdom as tools to peel your layers. I enter deep into the psyche, and twist the mind through hypnotic conditioning and Domination.
Inside your mind is where my Dark Haven lies…
Choose Your Dominant Experience
D/s KINK Life Coach Certified
FLR Counsel
What I’m looking for is to enhance my Coaching and Counsel as I Guide you into becoming a thriving submissive who can choose his Domme. I counsel Women who want to give into their Dominant urges and become the Dommes who create their own FLR.
HIGH COUNSEL DOMME for
D/s FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIPS
BASED ON
BALANCE IN THE POWER IMBALANCE
for S E L E C T I V E S E RV I C E S U B S
I dive into your psyche to bring out the traits and strengths unique to you as a sub man wading through the world and Mentor you as you become a submissive who attracts optimized women ready to explore their Dominance with you, Dominants that YOU have the power to choose. What I'm looking for are submissive men who will dive deeply with me, give me access to their psyches to sculpt and mentor them into strong powerful submissives ready to protect and serve and not rely on being chosen. I guide and mold through VIRTUAL hypnosis, chastity, Findom and Mentor Coaching.
and for emerging powerhouses becoming
D O R M A N T TO D O M M E
I’d compartmentalized my selves all my life until I realized it was a mindset that was preventing me from truly elevating myself to my fullest, most Dominant and powerful self. Fully integrated, I built and now Lead an exciting FLR and now I want to share and empower Women seeking to self actualize as Dominants. What I'm looking for are women who are READY to dive deeply into their dominant urges and to fully enhance their developed and natural talents and embody their Dominance and become a Lifestyle FLR Domme.
My journey towards Domination and Leadership was a full
I M M E R S I O N and O P T I M I Z A T I O N of all my selves. to CREATE a
BALANCE
of
POWER and HUMANITY.
AUTHORITARIAN DOMME
RULER of The House of
V A L E S K A
I indulge my Dark Domme as I delve into your psyche and hold it in my hands for my DOMINANT pleasure. I desire a potent D/s connection with the submissives I choose., My vision is to develop a HOUSE of powerful ARMORED submissives who SERVE and CONTRIBUTE to my POWER.
Inside your mind is where my dark haven lies...
I dive into your psyche through
EROTIC HYPNOSIS
NARRATION
CONDITIONING
to take you on a narrative subspace journey that will please me. What I'm looking for are submissive men who will dive deeply with me, give me access to your minds to sculpt, mold and discipline while I indulge and revel in my Power through
VIRTUAL DOMINATION
I have experienced the most intense and powerful personal journey of my life.
I'd felt strong sexually dominant urges for many years but hadn’t explored them, even as I was dominant in my day to day in my profession and in impactful decisions I was making regularly. My hands had always been on the wheel in every department except in my erotic life.
It wasn’t until I took the reigns to delve into my true identity as a Dominant that My road began.
It was with an experienced, confident, charismatic, down to earth submissive that I felt the confidence to merge my Dominant selves.
He opened the doors of the D/s world and provided a non judgmental space for me to enter and immerse myself in, offering himself as the object for me to practice on. At first, I'd wanted him as a conquest because our attraction and connection was palpable, raw and intense. But then what had started as a fun experiment turned into the complete emergence of the Dominant inside me, allowing me to become a Lifestyle FLR FEMDOM. As I fully formed, my transformation solidified and I in turn transformed my connection with this willful submissive into a full fledged FLR D/s dynamic that has been the most fulfilling relationship of my life.
ABOUT ME
A confident sub intrigued and enticed me to embrace my Domme and I never looked back.
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When you’re in session, the dynamic is very clear. You’re in charge and he does what you say.When you’re trying to build an FLR however, you also have to incorporate the other main ingredient and that’s HUMANITY. Life is in the day to day details. I gave him the freedom to let his guard down around me to build this 360 relationship. I HAD TO SHOW HIM MY HUMAN SIDE. SO HE COULD SHOW ME HIS.
I LET HIM BE HIMSELF AND DIDN’T TAKE IT AS OFFENSE WHEN HE WASN’T ALWAYS IN SUBSPACE. (example. After a session and sex, we’d be lying on the bed, and I’d be in this state of Domme Space euphoria and suddenly he would voice this random thought about …. And the first few times, I was caught off guard, thinking, did he not just experience what I did? Did my dominance not have an effect on him? But I went with it instead and over time I realized this was just how his mind worked and it had nothing to do with me or my dominance. In fact, we connected deeper because I taught him that he didn’t need to have his guard up with me and that he can be himself, and if you understand men on a psychological level, you know that men fall because of the way you make them FEEL.
Metamorphosis
As a FEMDOM Balance in the Power Imbalance was key to a fulfilling D/s FLR
Forming an FLR is a dance of seduction. I took charge of every aspect while allowing the dynamic and relationship to form organically.
I challenged myself to use 3 traits and 3 practices to form my FLR.
I HAD TO DECIDE. DID I WANT COMPLIANCE OR DID I WANT CHANGE?
I COULD FORCE COMPLIANCE IN A SESSION BUT WHAT I WANTED WAS AN FLR AND FOR THAT I HAD TO SLOWLY & SUBTLE MOLD. PLANT SEEDS. I HAD TO CONDITION him.
I knew I had to have an understanding of who he was at his core, who he is in his day to day, quirks, mannerisms, good traits etc to get inside his psyche and dominate from there.
This is where vision comes in. What do you want the results to be and how are you getting there?
THE BALANCE IN THE POWER IMBALANCE.
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What has thrilled me the most about becoming a Lifestyle Femdom were the years I spent training and conditioning my submissive, enhancing his discipline and service to me, during every step along the path I guided him on. What fueled my compulsion was the careful and meticulous process of planning and psychologically peeling his layers, using HYPNOSIS, CONDITIONING and DOMINATION. During this time I learned what a patient and creative crafter I am, weaving and enhancing my DOMME CRAFT and that I am a firm, intuitive, emotionally intelligent, enhancing and mature Domme.
I saw where his talents and natural abilities lied and then I pushed his limits an inch every time, turning the volume up on each, until I eventually crumbled his walls and the magnificent slave that serves me now emerged.
Now. As I see the struggle that many strong submissive men experience finding their Dominants and making themselves available to any (credentialed or not) who will take them), I am seeing the level of advantage that is being taken of them and now my mission is to use virtual domination to form and mold submissives into the strong, confident, sexy and charismatic submissive like the one that attracted Me and made it irresistible to resist and take all the way to make him mine. I want to Mentor and Sculpt sub men who want to be led to be his absolute best and who CHOOSE their Dommes for committed FLR’s and D/s Dynamics through Selective Service.
But those sexy, confident, charismatic subs need their Powerful, Confident, Mature and Self Assured Domme to Lead them to greatness in service and why I Mentor Women who have felt the stirrings of Domination envelop them and bring them out from Dormant to Dominant.
