The Heroic Submissive
The term Heroic Masculinity has been used to describe a set of ideas regarding what constitutes a hero in a given society and culture. These include qualities or attributes that are regarded by cultures as characteristics of heroic men.
The full frame of masculinity has changed today, leaving men, especially submissive men, to feel discarded in a society that has devalued their natural instincts to feel capable, in service and in providing the building blocks to elevate and protect those they care about and serve.
There is a degree of courage required in healthy, noble and heroic masculinity, as there are in submission as well. What masculine sub men bring to the table are the same, if not more than the average men.
To this deep and dark Domme, these are heroic submissives.
Heroic submissives provide immense value to the world and to their Dommes. They bring accountability, responsibility and integrity to the service they provide. They do the hard things that men are supposed to do and are valued for, just as in heroic masculinity.
What the current culture has called “toxic masculinity” is most often a refusal to become a man, to shoulder responsibilities, reject resentment, and not face difficulty with courage. They generalize in labeling the entire problem as “masculinity” when most often it is juvenility they’re calling out. That is what we need to raise and uplift men out of.
But masculinity isn’t the problem; it’s the solution.
Many men now feel numb because they're being conditioned to be everything they're not. They’ve been robbed of their intensity and robbed of their buy-in, which is why so many men are checking out their contribution. There's nothing left for them to buy into.
What men need is to have a worthy mission. This is especially true of submissive men. There’s a strong and deep need to be in service to something they believe is greater and truer and nobler than themselves. Submissive men want to serve in sacrifice on behalf of it.
I encourage you not to just take masculinity back, but to lean into your heroic submission. Not just fierce masculinity, but I also want you to build your internal sexy as well, as it pleases me to be served by sub men who aren’t afraid to show their sensual and provocative side.
So as your Mentor Domme, I give you permission to take back all of the following:
Starting off with my favorite, I grant you permission to be seductive again. Flaunt your natural instinct to flirt, court and confidently exude your sexual charisma.
With the constant vilification of masculinity, men have been conditioned not to embrace their sexual vibe out of some misguided sense of detrimental boundaries that prevent men from chasing and courting their Dommes (and life!) in a manner that attracts them on a primal level. It’s purely out of my own self interest, you see, are the more sexually confident you as a sub and allow me and others to feel it from you, the more attraction you’ll create and the more we will want to feel your face under our…ahem, feet. Get your head out of the gutter, they say! I say, don’t ;)
I summon you to hunt again.
With that sexy confidence comes your natural instinct to hunt. Blow it wide open, and address the Domme you’re pursuing appropriately, gentlemanly but also with a simmering, restrained desire to be dominated and swayed by the right Domme. Let Her feel from you that you can serve, that you’ve been molded to be selective with who you surrender to. That you approach Her respectfully but also with some of the raw sensuality that arouses Her into hard circles through Her leather.
I propose you postpone gratification. It is the single biggest predictor of success or failure.
When men hold their sexual energy and don’t release it, that potent power can be used to advance goals and further their mission. It also exudes from your submissive core and lights up the erotic energy of the room that your Domme can use to deepen your surrender and acts of service.
Men are human doings. Men need to act. To move with purpose. To be capable. Submissive men need to operate. I urge you to step up and execute.
In your day to day, find ways to serve and contribute to the world and your Domme. Make sure your day is marked with service and gratitude and let it show in your social media accounts. Let the Domme you're pursuing get a glimpse of the quality of service you provide to those around you, one filled with integrity, focus and performance. Elevate your contributions as you advance in the world. Improve your skills. Let us get a taste of you.. so that we gain a desire for you to get a taste of us.
I command you to train your body.
That is a mission you can put your focus and attention on that will improve every area of your life and will also attract a Domme like me. Train your body and you will show dominants that you have endured suffering, discipline and zoned in on and accomplished goals, while providing at her feet, the best object she can use for Her molding and pleasure. You’ll also be a sight for sore Domme eyes to feast on before she uses you. Mmmmm. Training also improves your competence and endurance when submitting to a particularly sadistic Domme, read- ME.
Learn to communicate and articulate your thoughts and ideas.
This will be especially helpful in learning how, with self discipline, to address Dommes of quality and experience. But first you must understand and internalize what you believe, what your convictions are and how to articulate them. It provides layers to your submission and to the dominance a quality Domme will execute and enjoy.
I'm giving you back your natural instinct to protect, provide for and please, the environment you surround yourself with and the Domme you selectively serve.
Heroic submissive masculinity is about accepting responsibility to provide service and protect his Domme and the world around him. Service is a moral obligation. Building is in your internal compass. Building yourself is a necessity. Be Useful. Be capable.
Provide. Protect. Please.
As you take all of these traits back or maybe even acquire them for the first time, you will be making yourself fit to be the sexy, heroic submissive that Dommes like myself seek to break in and direct.
For in the end, my salivating subs, I mold and sculpt you to your highest value so that you may:
Seek Stoically. Serve Selectively. Surrender Sublimely.
Under my feet and boots,
Femdom Elegance
